Family Photography San Diego

“We Are A Mess”: Thoughts on a happy family life by Kelsey Smith

We are a mess.

My kids stay up too late.

We are not neat, nor tidy.

My kids’ clothes are either too big or too small, most likely all in the same outfit.

 

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PHOTO BY KELSEY SMITH

Our kitchen is yellow. Like the brightest yellow and cobalt blue you can imagine.

We finally have a set bedtime after 5 years of nailing it down. We are always late to school.

 

PHOTO BY KELSEY SMITH

Everything we own is wrecked. Like things people had for years and gave to us in pristine condition. Yah, we wreck it within months.

My kids aren’t multilingual. They don’t play any instruments yet. They won’t go to the best academy in San Diego and honestly we’re not pushing college as a must do rather than an option.

We don’t listen to ‘kids’ music. In fact, my oldest knew how to sing “Sabotage” by the Beastie Boys way before he ever learned the words to “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star”. They’ve seen more bands in concert already than I saw until I was 18. They love to rock out to Vance Joy, The Pixies, and The Lumineers. We go to concerts at the Open Air Theatre but we don’t buy tickets. We sit on the grass outside and play as a family (and have a bottle of wine).

We don’t buy all organic. We can’t, unfortunately. I tried to go to the grocery story three days in a row last week but never made it.

The kids pick their own clothes out. They normally look disheveled but happy.

 

PHOTO BY KELSEY SMITH

We have a google calendar but I’m the only one who uses it.

My boys didn’t sleep on their own until they were two and a half and the little one still routinely kicks my hubby to the couch on the weekends.

One of our family mottos is “Every day can’t be the best day”.

My kids are almost always barefoot. My husband calls them little black foot which of course comes from the fact that he calls me black foot.

We have an untrainable dog. A wild hybrid thing, seriously.

We lovingly call our two year old Nick Nolte, and yes it’s because he’s crazy.

The irony of yelling “QUIET” on a daily basis does not elude me.

We get by. We’re happy. We are every ounce of mess and we love it.

PHOTO BY KELSEY SMITH

 

PHOTO BY KELSEY SMITH

WORDS AND IMAGES BY KELSEY SMITH, San Diego Family Photographer

 

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